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Words You’ll Wish You Never Heard

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I thought I had a pretty good vocabulary. Then I got divorced and started online dating… I went on online dating sites and quickly realized I was going to have to learn a whole new online dating vocabulary! All these crazy-ass words, but why? Well, it seems as we continue to fail and fuck up with dating and relationships we need …

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Impossible to Love

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I debated writing this. I thought about it for a long time. In fact, I might chicken out even now… As I type. I might just stop, delete, and change my mind. (Should I? Nah.) It’s an important one I think. But it hurt like hell to hear last week when it happened. So writing it now just brings up …

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Man-A-Pause

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I wish I hated him. Or he did something shitty. Or he was mean. I wish he cheated on me… Or said hurtful words, was disrespectful or unkind. Then maybe this breakup would make sense. Maybe it would be less painful. I’d be able to eat and sleep. I’d stop crying. Ya. Maybe if he was a horrible human being, …

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Pessimistic or Realistic?

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I don’t want to meet the kids. Or get engaged. I don’t feel the need to co-habitate, Or ever blend families. I am never getting married again, and I think all relationships (after divorce) will eventually come to an end. Yeesh. Do you think I’m being pessimistic? Well, I’m not. I’m being realistic y’all. And I am in love, and …

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Online Dating After Divorce: Truth Hurvitz Style

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We matched on Bumble. We chatted for two days. We exchanged numbers. We texted for “real” on the phone. We had an actual speaking conversation for fuck sake…it was like we knew each other for years! He said all the right things. I was über witty. We continued texting on and off for a week and even scheduled a date …