I asked, and the MEN answered-- bunches of them! Data collected, ladies! Now, here's my shortlist...
Walk This Way. That's right, y'all! The way you enter a room or strut down the street can literally make or break it for some guys. Chin up, shoulders back, and own it, my friends. What is it that Mrs. Maisel says? Oh ya! "Tits Up!"
Don't Sweat the Small Stuff. Don't take shit so seriously! Be able to laugh at yourself. This was high on the list. No guy wants a chick that is a) overcritical of herself or b) hypersensitive. Laugh and the whole world laughs with you. ;)
Werk, Werk. Drive. Motivation. Passion. BAM! Men don't care what you do as long as you are doing something and enthusiastic about doing it. And extra-sexy bonus points if you have an endgame and a goal in mind. SCORE!
Au Naturel. I LOVE make-up and getting all dolled up for a hot date night out! But there's nothing hotter than a chick that can rock a baseball hat and sweatpants! How do I know this? 100% of the men I spoke to told me. Ha. Do you look the same sans makeup as you do with it? Ok, how about "close to" the same? Ummm..not even recognizable? Houston, we have a problem- a big one. If you can't wash your face in front of your man, that shit ain't sexy. Less is more. Way less is best.
Smarty-pants. Look, you don't have to be MENSA, okay? But you should be able to tell the difference between "there" and "their" or where Texas is on the map. Ok, I'm not so great at geography- but I am good at science! Whatever your wheelhouse is, a guy likes when you know a little somethin' somethin' about well, something!
Booty Call. This one is at the top of the list, so listen up, my friend. Love the skin you're in? If the answer is no, you best start trying! If it's yes--GREAT! Men are attracted to women who are confident with themselves and the skin they are in, no matter what it looks like! It's a turn-on when you love your body; whatever you've got going on: big butt, small tits, scars, stretch marks, who cares? Guess what? They don't. They are just happy when YOU are happy.